It becomes quite impossible for us to control our anger sometimes and thus we are advised to go for the anger management classes. In this article we have come with some techniques for you that will help you manage your anger without taking any special classes for it.
Anger Management Techniques
1. As You Have Sown, So Shall You Reep:-
If you have got angry and you are fighting with someone because of the fact that he made you angry, won’t he be angry as you are fighting with him? Won’t he try to fight back some day? If everybody starts getting angry all the time, who will stay happy? Get a life chap and get back to work. Anger should not make you week
2. Patience Is Better Than Anger:-
Learn the art of patience, Those who are always in a hurry are likely to stay more bad tempered in a way that when they themselves do things fast, they expect the result to come even faster what increases their anger and makes them bad tempered.
3. It Is Not Always Right To Slap Back When Someone Slaps You:-
If everybody thinks like ,” blood for blood and eye for an eye, the whole world will get blind”. It is not always right to slap back when somebody slaps you and instead you can try Gandhigiri for it. When somebody slaps you, just say thank you sir for telling me what I could have lost being with you. Now I will stay away. Though it does not works all the time, but it really works sometimes. You should never hold any personal grudge against anybody.
4. First Calm Down And Then Talk:-
If you are a short tempered person who gets angry even with small things and always stay short raged, you should never try to talk when somebody makes you angry and instead you should leave the place and first try to calm down yourself and then come back again to talk. Be humorous enough to calm yourself down as well as the others. You can even try joke books or joke videos in order to change your mood.
5. Problems And Solutions Go Hand In Hand:-
Truly said,” problems and solutions go hand in hand. If you have found a trouble for yourself, there must also be some solution hidden somewhere that you have to find and nobody except you can find it better. If you are getting angry because of some problem of yours, instead fighting with others, try to find a solution for it. Whenever you find any problem hard enough to be solved, just take some deep breaths and get indulged in your work back seeking for better solutions.
6. Mature People Know How To Handle Their Problems Well:-
Tell yourself that you are mature enough to tackle small small things and that you know how to handle things well. Firstly, understand what is happening, make an analysis of it and then react to it. Think before speaking and stay polite with everybody. You never know when you may find need of someone.